One of the best pieces of advice I received when I graduated from nursing school was to find a mentor. One of my instructors told me to find a nurse that has been around for a while and can help you get through that tough first year and then help you get along when times are tough.
I did find a mentor when I was in my final semester of school. He was my preceptor for one of clinical rotations. He had only been a nurse for a few years, so he understood what I needed from him in the beginning of my career and he also knew the pitfalls I would find myself in as my career progressed. When I was thinking about changing jobs or specialties, I knew I could go to him and get his honest opinion, and that I could trust that he would not steer me wrong.
Once I got into management, I needed to find someone that could help me in this transition. Although he was the one that helped me make the decision to jump from the floor into the office, he didn’t have the experience there that could help me.
I finally found a nurse that had been in management for about 10 years. Her career was about the same as mine; she went into nursing with a previous career in business and knew that she wanted to get into management as quickly as possible. She is now the one that is there for me when I need a little pat on the back when I think I am going the wrong direction with my management…..and she is there to knock me down when I am thinking I am great when I am actually screwing up pretty bad.
I truly appreciate both of my mentors for different reasons, but the most important thing they have done for me is just help me stay positive and remember why I wanted to be a nurse in the first place.
Great article. Full time I am a nurse manager in long term care. Part time I am an educator and speaker (see my webpage) As I get close to retirement from my fulltime job I am interested in developing an online nursing business. One of my ideas is to be a mentor to nurses online. What do you think about this idea? Thanks
By Nancy on February 10, 2010 at 3:19 pm
this would be a great idea Nancy , I would be one of the first nurses to sign up
By turkess on February 22, 2010 at 2:29 pm
I have found myself in need of a nurse mentor for my “Professional Socialization” class. I would find someone who I live near or work with, but I am in the position of leaving my current job to move from Michigan to Florida and of course this transition takes place right in the middle of everything for this class. So you can see my dilemma. What I need is someone who can be a mentor for me, but in the form of a strictly on-line e-mailing relationship for this class. That’s the only way I can take my mentor with me when I move. Any volunteers?? I am looking for a nurse with years of experience – well seasoned.
By Dawn Tucker on March 13, 2010 at 8:51 pm
This what I have been looking for. I am not new to the profession, but I have started my role as a RN Case Manager into Hospice. I worked 25 years before in Africa, passed the NCLEX-RN in September 2009. I am aware that I need to learm more from the social and professional skills to fully feel independent. Direct contact type of mentorship would be great, but I’d welcome e-mail mentorship if offered.
By Cassie on April 6, 2010 at 3:31 pm