Nurse myths – “Have you heard about the nurse who…?”

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Fredrik Broden for Scrubs Magazine

Myths and misconceptions abound in every profession, and nursing is no exception. Sometimes these myths come from colleagues, sometimes from people outside the profession—either way, they don’t serve us well.

So, the next time you hear a stereotype you know is nonsense, use your know-how to clarify, inform and enlighten.

Myth: “Real” nurses work in hospitals.
Fact: More than half of all nurses work in hospitals, but that doesn’t make them more “real” than the rest of us.

I used to work in an emergency room, and I can tell you for certain that I am every bit as much a nurse since I left as I was in the hospital (I’ve done everything from conducting medical exams for insurance companies to preparing nurses to take their boards for an education company). Yet from the day I stepped out of the hospital into the world of nontraditional nursing, the questioning (“Why did you leave nursing?”) started. And it has never stopped. I always give the same answer, very calmly and very proudly: “I never left nursing. I’m still a healer, teacher and nurturer.” I have a very broad view of who a nurse is and what a nurse does. While many of us wear scrubs, there are still nurses who wear uniforms, business clothes, even overalls. Being a nurse is about who you are, not about what you wear or where you work.

Myth:
You can always tell a good nurse by how much she (or he) knows.
Fact: An excellent store of information and experience is essential in a nurse, no question about it. But a deep sense of empathy and compassion are equally important. A nursing instructor at a community college told me that she always explains to new grads, “Patients don’t care how much you know until they know how much you care.”

Myth: Patients like to be called by their first name. It’s just friendlier.
Fact: With all the available techno-communication—from email and text messaging to Facebook and Twitter—we’ve become an increasingly informal society, and sometimes we automatically address people by their first name. Many patients are more comfortable with formality in the health care setting, and the use of surnames and titles helps maintain the professional relationship. Plus, there are many people, especially older individuals, who consider it disrespectful to be addressed by their first name. The bottom line: Be sensitive to your patients’ preferences. It’s probably safest to start out with formal forms of address and progress from there.

Myth: Apart from the language issue, most foreign-trained nurses find that working in an American hospital is not much different from working in their home country.
Fact: Foreign-trained nurses now account for about five percent of the total United States nursing workforce, and are an intrinsic part of our health care system. Thank goodness, because there are some parts of our country that are suffering from a nursing shortage. Most foreign-trained nurses, despite their high skill level and excellent training, still have to sort out a host of cultural issues and professional expectations that they often hadn’t expected.

Nurses from the Philippines, for example, who make up nearly half the foreign-trained nurses, usually find they have much more responsibility here. They also have to be more independent and use more critical thinking skills. Why? Because in the Philippines, most hospitals are teaching hospitals, and the residents and medical students do most of the procedures. When they get to the United States, nurses find, for example, that they’re required not only to start IVs, but are also supposed to interact with doctors and patients’ families, even if they’re not the charge nurse; additionally, they’re responsible for discharge planning and case management. Add to all this a brand new language, and you can really see what foreign-trained nurses are up against.

Myth: One of a nurse’s main responsibilities is to help doctors do their jobs better.
Fact: Nurses are not secondary caregivers, but highly educated, skilled and autonomous members of the primary health care team who make independent critical decisions about the care of their patients. While it’s true that some nurses are extremely deferential to doctors, and some doctors are domineering types, those roles are rarely, if ever, the norm.

To read more myths—including the ones about male nurses, nurses eating their young, and the hierarchies of nursing specialties—read the complete story in the 2010 Winter Edition of Scrubs Magazine, available at your local scrubs retailer. Find a retailer who carries Scrubs Magazine here.

Donna Cardillo

Donna Wilk Cardillo, RN, MA is the Career Guru for Nurses. She is the Dear Donna columnist for nurse.com and Nursing Spectrum and NurseWeek magazines. Donna is author of Your 1st Year as a Nurse – Making the Transition From Total Novice to Successful Professional and The ULTIMATE Career Guide for Nurses – Practical Advice for Thriving at Every Stage of Your Career . Donna is also creator of Career Alternatives for Nurses® seminars and home study program. Contact Donna at www.dcardillo.com. More

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6 Responses to Nurse myths – “Have you heard about the nurse who…?”

  1. Donna,
    Love this list! Thanks for the male-nurse mention.

  2. Rick

    Hmmmmm…..you didn’t cover all the topics in the headline.

    Helping MD’s do their jobs better, or rather, helping MD’s avoid making mistakes IS one of our main functions, and it has nothing to do with being deferential or the docs being domineering. Alerting the MD to improper orders and questioning decisions that don’t feel right saves their butts day after day, not to mention the patient’s outcome. The buck stops with the nurse because we are the one’s carrying out the MD orders and working most closely with the patients.

    All nurses are “real” nurses just as all soldiers are real soldiers… the difference is that hospital nurses are the combat troops and the non-inpatient nurses are the REMFs. :)

  3. vickie rost

    This article doesn’t go into whether or not nurses eat their young. Speaking from recent personal experience, yes, they do. My first year out of nursing school (I graduated in 2005) was like a year long hazing. Some older RNs were very nice, but others went out of their way to make my life miserable and make me look stupid whenever possible. Sad but true. Why older nurses feel the need to be this way, I will never know. I’d never do that to a new nurse. The gap between school and real world nursing is big enough to be overwhelming as it is, without them constantly fearing their older coworkers.

  4. Shawn

    I am a straight, male, military critical care nurse in the Canadian Forces and I have never felt I was never on an equal playing field as a doctor. You condition people how to treat you. Be assertive, competent, and professional and you will not have issues. I love being a nurse and i have heard all the comments about being a male in this profession. Have thick skin and do your job well. We are all a team when it come to the patient who needs our care.

  5. Darryl

    Is there any profession (or many at least) where people DON’T eat their young? I think we just research it more as RN’s. Subway or Canadian Tire or cutting grass for training barracks, it’s always the same. Hockey has hazing. The military has hazing. Why should we be any different (not that I do it or think it SHOULD be done – but really, asides from publishing that we as RN’s do it and talking about it all the time, I don’t know that we’re that different asides from the fact that we’re supposed to care for people. We don’t compete for promotions, so that side of life in general pops up. IMO anyways.

  6. Zack

    After 31 years of nursing IN and OUT of hospitals I say all nurses are real nurses and NO nurse is a REMF. I did 12 years of military nursing, some in Bosnia and some in Iraq. I did 25 years of ER nursing and 2 years as administrator for a state prison, the big house not the trustee farms. I taught nursing for 3 years and that was THE MOST FUN JOB I ever had. I now am in Home Health nursing and I love it. Have you ever tried to teach a 70+ person and spouse to give themself IV meds with or without pump and do the flushes?