What is being a nurse really like?

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Some TV shows would have you believe that a nurse’s sole function is to be a hospital handmaiden. But nursing is so much more than dispensing meds and cleaning up Code Browns. So what’s it really like being a nurse?

 

 

What is being a nurse really like?

  • It’s like walking a tightrope with your hands in your pockets. You must do this, that and the other, without unbalancing the act.
  • Nurses get to see so many things, patients come in hurt, afraid and vulnerable, or angry, confrontational and manipulative, and everything in between.
  • We do the best that we can with the resources we have.
  • We listen, we cheer, we encourage, we set limits, we admonish and we educate.
  • We hear ways to use cuss words we never knew existed.
  • We get to listen to stories of people who have been married 60 years and how they met.
  • We learn about family feuds and dysfunction.
  • We listen to young children’s fears and teenagers’ anguish,
  • Sometimes they are wrapped up in anger and defiance, so we have to be detectives and counselors.
  • We pull people from the edge of death, and sometimes they live, and sometimes they just exist, in a bruised and battered body with no real knowledge of where they are.
  • We feel frustration and hope, anger and joy, and all the little points in between.
  • We do our job and beyond.
  • We care, and we believe, we give and we receive, we comfort and we pray, and we work as a team to heal.
  • We are the eyes and ears of not only the physicians, but the families who cannot be there.
  • We navigate the HIPAA laws…or try to, even through the angry phone calls.
  • We get to hold the hand of the dying as they transition beyond this life and we hold the babies, gently, tenderly and guide them into this one.
  • We get to do so many, many things, be intimate with one person at a time, we change them and they change us.
  • Acknowledged sometimes, scolded, hit, cursed and called names at other times.
  • It is hard, physically, emotionally, mentally.
  • It is tearing down and building up.
  • To be a nurse…it is life-changing. And I am blessed.

Written by Nurse Sherri ‘Peppi’ Launius-Pepitone

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8 Responses to What is being a nurse really like?

  1. suzanne

    So beautiful!! Doesn’t matter where you nurse…It’s all the same!!! Tears in my eyes reading this. You definely KNOW what it means to be a nurse. HAPPY NURSES WEEK to all of US!!!

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      Happy Nurses Week, Suzanne!!!

  2. punkey00
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      Registered Nurse

    That sums our job in such a beautiful and matter of fact way thy only another nurse could truly understand and appreciate!!!
    When I first read the headline, my first thought was nursing is one of the very few jobs that can make you feel like a hero and the villian all within the same shift!

  3. Smithteamracing
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      Registered Nurse

    We make a difference every day we work.

  4. Nursedavid
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      Registered Nurse

    Good Lord, it’s this sappy stuff which nursing students read and believe! 90% unrelentling stress and being micromanaged to the 9th degree, 10% reward.

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      I felt like that some days, nursedavid, but, I can’t imagine having done anything else. There are a tremendous amount of rewards. I can’t imagine any other job that would offer them in the same way. I think that if you don’t feel that way, it’s just not the job for you. Maybe you should go for a leadership position and change that micromanagement stuff because it does exist. The thing that kept me going was knowing that I truly made a difference.

    • queenie
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        Registered Nurse

      Someone I agree with. I think I like you. You tell the truth.

  5. queenie
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      Registered Nurse

    I was agreeing with NurseDavid.