It’s funny, being a nurse. To your family and friends you’re better than calling the advice line, better than a trip to the doctor. Since graduation, I’ve heard “I’m putting you on speed dial in case I need advice in an emergency,” over and over.Â And while I love nursing and what we do (and sometimes I would turn to a nurse first for advice), I am a firm believer that if something is wrong, go to the doctor! There have been too many health issues in my family to take medicine for granted.
So off to the doctor it is! But after a recent experience, and reading this fellow blogger’s post about visiting the doctor, I realized that as nurses, we really do butt heads with the doc sometimes. I recently went to a doctor’s appointment with my fiancÃ© as he’s been having some unexplained abdominal pain for quite some time. I’ve started to think beyond the typical assumptions, and so I started talking to the doctor,
“Do you think there could be a circulatory issue?’ I asked.
“No” he replied quickly, weary of what I was inkling toward.
“But maybe some sort of mesenteric vasospasm…”
He cut me off, “SOMEONE’S in the medical field,” heÂ said wryly. Seriously.Â He made it like a joke. I don’t joke about abdominal pain.
I told him I was a nurse (it’s soooo cool to finally be able to say that!) and he chuckled. He dryly answered my questions, but treated me as a child with far-fetched hypochondriac ideas. They may have been leaning toward the side of zebras than horses, but I had legitimate reasons, I’ve done my research!
This isn’t the first time this has happened, but the first since I’ve actually been able to fall back on a title and a license to my name. The first time with some credibility. But I still got the same reaction. What IS it? Is it a power issue? A long standing doctors vs. nurses grudge that must be carried on? Whatever it is it doesn’t help the patient, the nurse, or the doctor’s reputation, and leaves us all a little confused about who to believe. His explanation defeating my hypotheses was discredited by his attitude, and I am going to keep trying to solve these medical mysteries until I find a doc who will listen to me and respect my education and knowledge.