I read an article the other day about a woman who was told by her physician that she had a mass on her lung. Most likely, this mass was cancer and she would need a partial lobectomy. She asked if it was serious and he said, “Well, you probably won’t be running a marathon anytime soon.”
The woman was a long distance runner.
It made me think about how often we make comments to people about their illnesses not knowing the background of their lives. I’ve done it…I once had a patient who sustained a pretty good size laceration to her hand. I said “You might not be able to be a hand model now.” Looking back on that comment, I think, what if that had been her life goal? A little dramatic, I know, but its possible right?
Sometimes when people are out of proportion (by my standards anyway) upset about an injury, I try to imagine the worst case scenario for that person and why that might affect them so severely. Like if someone is upset about a broken baby toe. Maybe, they were going to go on a really important date that night with the man of their dreams and they were going to wear these really great new and expensive heels. Now they can’t so they are convinced this man will never love them and they will die an old lady with a hundred cats.
Hey, it could happen right?