The older, the better


I love old people. I really do. Even when they are cranky and crotchety and cantankerous–I love them even more. One, they usually have great stories to tell you. Two, they are usually appalled by current trends a la the Justin Bieber haircut. Three, they always have spunk and don’t care what you think of them.

I remember one super awesome patient who was 100 years old. She came in for something pretty minor and I was doing her assessment. I asked her what was the secret to living to be 100 years old. She thought about it for awhile and said “Well, I don’t know what to tell you. It SUCKS!” Then she started to tell me how her husband passed away when she was in her 70s and she has slowly watched many of her friends die.

I never thought about getting old that way; how painful it would be to see everyone leave you. And even if she makes new friends they won’t replace the old. I spent a lot more time than usual with this patient because she had so many fascinating stories. Sometimes, you just need a friend…no matter what age you are.

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Rebekah Child

Rebekah Child attended the University of Southern California for her bachelor's in nursing and decided to brave the academic waters and return for her master's in nursing education, graduating in 2003 from Mount St. Mary's. Rebekah has also taught nursing clinical and theory at numerous Southern California nursing schools and has been an emergency nurse since 2002. She is currently one of the clinical educators for an emergency department in Southern California and a student (again!) in the doctoral program at the University of California, Los Angeles.

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  1. RickD

    My 101-year old grandfather is alone after losing grandma in 2006. His body is failing while his mind is still in very good shape. How maddening it must be! When he turned 100 he was talking about another lady in the home who was 102, and how he hoped he wouldn’t live that long. He just wants to be done.